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Even though weddings are celebrations of something truly wonderful, they can be a complete hassle to plan. The stress of organising so many elements usually falls to the couple themselves, who often get so bogged down with the details they forget to be excited and elated until the day itself. This really isn’t a good situation to get into. Your wedding will probably be the most important, memorable day of your life, and you should enjoy planning it as much as you will enjoy the actual day.

The reception is the main part of the organisation process, and the whole day hinges on this being a success. So whether you met on dating websites or through friends, here are five steps towards a flawless wedding reception. As long as you’ve got all of these elements in place, there’s no need to stress over preparations!

Artistic aesthetics

Make sure the venue looks great. This is a lot simpler than it sounds – just find a sheaf of wedding magazines and flick through them for inspiration. Experiment with lighting, colourful flowers and table settings. If you’re not very creative, get insight from some of your friends, or you could even recruit a professional wedding planner to put together some gorgeous designs. Be artistic, bold and daring – don’t necessarily go for traditional wedding décor.

Conscientious catering

Wedding food is all about attention to detail. Recruit a team whose appetisers will match the beauty of your décor with great presentation and great taste. Be conscientious with your planning – not everyone likes the same food, so make sure there are plenty of options for your extensive number of guests. Make certain there are vegetarian and vegan options. You wouldn’t want to offend anyone or leave them hungry.

Sensitive speechmaking

Keep an eye on your speechmakers. Ask them how the writing is going and ask them if they need any help. If you’re really paranoid, insist on a full rehearsal before the big day. You wouldn’t want any embarrassing or inappropriate stories shocking the room and putting everyone off their delicious and intricately decorated cuisine.

Mood music

Go for varied music that fits well with the mood. You’ll need songs that make you dance (I would recommend a heavy dose of Motown here), songs that everyone knows (chuck in all the classics), slow romantic songs, including your first-dance track (but don’t make these too cheesy) and personal songs that you both love (after all, it is your party).

A bounty of booze

A healthy supply of alcohol is a must for a successful wedding reception. It eases the atmosphere and means everyone will take to the dance floor, as opposed to just a scattered few. Make sure someone’s keeping an eye on the people who are likely to take too much advantage of a free bar, though! You wouldn’t want someone’s excessive drinking to ruin the event.

Whether you met at university or in Manchester dating online, there’s no need to stress about your wedding reception. If you have all of these five elements, you’re laughing.


Updo or downdo? Choosing a wedding hairstyle is just one of many decisions that need to be made when planning this special event. Making the right choice of which hair style to use is not always easy. Ben Anton offers some help with his article, “2009 Wedding Updos – Choosing Your Hairstyle.”

The 2010 wedding season is here full of fresh ideas for wedding locations, dresses, cakes and hairstyles. Most brides look to create a wedding that follows a cohesive theme. That means the dress, the hair and the accessories all work together to create the most memorable of elements for the wedding – you!

Below is some advice for choosing the best wedding hairstyle this year.

The Stylist

There are many options for wedding hairstyles. The first step in creating a beautiful look is finding a hairstylist that you trust to do wonderful work. If you have a stylist in mind, talk to them about wedding hairstyles you have seen and liked. Your hairstylist will be able to explain what may or may not work best for you as well as let you in on some of the best 2009 wedding updos.

Make sure to work practice hairstyle sessions in as you lead up to your wedding day. This way you will have a chance to see a couple of updo and other options. You will also be able to test the hairstyle with your veil and be able to wear it for a day to make sure it will last through the ceremony and reception.

2010 Hairstyle Options

The best 2009 wedding updos are easy to find this time of year. Flip through a few of the latest hairstyle and bridal magazines. The latest runway and fashion show photographs will also give a little insight on what’s hot for 2009. The hairstyle you choose doesn’t have to be a traditional wedding updo if that is not what you are going for. It should reflect your taste and the style of the wedding.

Updos

Right now, 2009 wedding updos are utilizing beautiful hair accessories to add dimension and artistry to the hairstyle. 2009 trends are marked with intricate yet delicate hair accessories which combine metalwork, embroidery, and crystals shaped into flowers, hearts, as well as more modern designs. Take a look at Karl Lagerfeld’s last runway show to see how these are being used with fabulous results.

For those brides with long hair, updos can be twisted around the head, with a slight messiness much like typical Grecian hairstyles. This is both sexy and romantic. Most 2009 wedding hair trends are foregoing the tighter, put together styles for more feminine and whimsical designs Think ’soft’,'pretty’,'romantic’,'tousled’,and ‘feminine’ as you look for a wedding hairstyle this year.

Short Hair

If you have short hair, don’t worry about paying for extensions for your wedding. Maintain a real look and go for adding a hair accessory, tiara or a beautiful veil to make your hair look different for your wedding without being over the top.

Down Dos

Have long hair, but don’t want to wear it in an updo? The hottest 2009 wedding hairstyles for the long-tressed are big volume, large barrel curls that have a very natural look. This can be done by a stylist with heated rollers or a large barrel curling iron. A good stylist will know what to put on the hair to ensure it maintains the curls and volume throughout the day.

The hair is a big part of the bride on their wedding day. Take some time to think about the style you want, that will look best on you and will make you feel like the beautiful woman you are.


Elegant wedding favors are an exquisite way of passing the luck on to your guests according the ancient Roman tradition. Moreover it is a beautiful way to exemplify your gratitude towards your guests.

One of the most elegant wedding favors is the tradition of the five different colored Jordan almonds was used to portray the bitter and the sweet of matrimony. The wedding couple can explain further and attach a note explaining the significance of each metallic colored almond. Each one of the almonds represented happiness, long life, fertility, health and wealth.

Although everyone has his or her own opinion as to what is elegant or not, an elegant wedding favor idea what stood the test of time is silver bottle openers. In fact, any practical silver item with the date of your wedding and your names engraved on it can serve as an elegant wedding favor.

Silver-plated picture frames and silver clip stands serving as place card holders will always be regarded as popular and elegant wedding favors together with silver plated glass coasters and wine stoppers. Stainless steel can be deemed just as elegant as silver. A stainless steel key ring engraved with your names and wedding date on a charm is timeless and a very useful elegant wedding favor.

Before you indulge in selecting the ideal elegant wedding favors of your choice, make sure that the style portrayed through the elegance of your wedding favor are suitable or fits in to the overall theme of your wedding and more importantly to the style of the bride and groom. If you require elegant wedding favors but less formal than silver, chrome and stainless steel you will find just as many different options to choose from that can relate well to the theme of the wedding.

A metal seashell shape bookmark is an elegant favor without the glitz and glamour of silver for your beach wedding and can be used by anyone and reasonably priced at $2.50 each. Candles can serve very well as elegant wedding favors. Pure rolled beeswax candles are available in a wide range of sizes and the size will determine the price.

One last important thing to remember before you go off to choose your ideal elegant wedding favor is to place your order well before your wedding day. This way you will be sure to present your wedding guests with the elegant wedding favors you intended to.